Victims! Sovereignty! And… Your Financial Foundation?
Or, developing self-esteem and personal power with money
“The primary objective of the Victim archetype is to develop self-esteem and personal power. When you are in a situation in which you feel threatened or you suspect that you lack the appropriate social, professional, or personal power, take notice of that reaction physically, emotionally, and mentally. That is the intuitive voice of your inner Victim.” – Caroline Myss
Aloha, lovely entrepreneurs!
We’re currently delving into Archetype mindset. This is so important for your finances. Because it’s within your mindset that your money will either flow to you abundantly or be withheld.
So far we’ve taken a look at all eight Sacred Money Archetypes: the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist,Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer and Romantic.
We’re currently looking at the four Survival Archetypes: the Child, Victim, Prostitute and Saboteur.
And this week, we’re moving on to one that often makes us want to recoil, but holds the key to your true strength: The Victim.
The Victim is your Guardian of Power.
In its empowered state, this archetype is about incredible resilience, iron-clad boundaries, and an unshakable sense of self-esteem. It teaches you how to stand your ground and command your worth.
But when money feels like a battle you’re losing? You feel at the mercy of the economy, the taxman, or “difficult” clients. You let your boundaries crumble, over-delivering for people who don’t appreciate it. You lean into the “why is this happening to me?” narrative, giving away your agency and letting control of your finances slip through your fingers.
This isn’t about blaming yourself for life’s challenges. It’s about reclaiming your sovereignty. It’s about realizing that while you can’t always control the winds, you are still the one trimming the sails and keeping your hand on the rudder. It’s moving from “powerless” to “powerful.”
Let’s shift you back into your empowered Victim: the one who guards her power fiercely.
These mindset statements reconnect you to abundance while strengthening your personal boundaries and self-esteem by using the key words of Ho’oponopono1.
So take three deep, luxurious breaths in… and out… and let’s dive in.
Here are ten Victim Money Mindset Statements for prosperity:
I am the sole authority in my financial life and I own my power.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I release the story that money is something that “happens” to me.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I set clear, firm boundaries that protect my time, my energy and my bank account.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
It is safe for me to say “no” to anything that devalues my worth.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I trust myself to navigate financial challenges with resilience and grace.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am worthy of being paid well, on time, and with respect.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I release all resentment toward money and choose to see it as a tool for my freedom.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am no longer available for under-earning or over-working.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I have the courage to look at my numbers and take decisive action.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I embody the empowered Victim: resilient, self-assured, bounded… and powerful.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Guardian of Power, hear this:
Your sensitivity to power dynamics isn’t a weakness, it’s your radar. It’s telling you exactly where you need to plug the leaks in your business.
You don’t need to be a “martyr” to be successful.
You don’t need to tolerate “vampire” clients to keep the lights on.
You don’t need to stay in the passenger seat of your own life.
You simply need to build a version of abundance where your self-esteem is the foundation, not an afterthought.
These mindset statements are your reset tools. Use them when you feel like the world is “against” you, when you’re tempted to complain rather than change, or when you feel your boundaries softening under pressure.
You are not a bystander.
You are not stuck.
You are not powerless.
You are the Guardian of your own wealth, and it’s time to start acting like it.
Want Support With This?
If this stirred something in you, join us deeper inside the Mavericks & Malbec world. This is where we stop the “poor me” cycle and start the “prosperous me” movement. We help you build the boundaries that turn your business into a sanctuary of profit.
You deserve wealth that empowers you, not wealth that costs you your soul.
If you’re ready to reclaim your throne, book a 1:1 Virtual VIP Day to meet your inner Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer or Romantic and start collaborating with her, not fighting against her.
Next week we’ll continue our deep dive into the mindset of the four Survival archetypes with the Prostitute – and no, it’s not what you think! It’s all about the price of your integrity. Don’t miss it!
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P.S.
And don’t forget! If you need a bit more background on the Romantic, before delving into mindset, we uncovered the characteristics of the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer and Romantic Sacred Money Archetypes. (To find out which one you are, just complete this Assessment – here are the instructions – and definitely check out the Sacred Money Archetype cards.)
We also met the four “Survival” Archetypes – the Child, Victim, Prostitute and Saboteur.
Finally, we looked at how the position of your primary Sacred Money Archetype on your money chart influences your relationship with money and how the Survival archetypes affect her.
If you want to find out more about any of this, just get in touch at: hello@mavericksandmalbec.com.
… and if you enjoyed it…
We’re going to ease the stress by blending prosperity mindset work with the Ho’oponopono cleaning process – a method taught by Morrnah Simeona, the Hawaiian kahuna lapa’au (healer) who brought this practice to the modern world.
Why combine the two?
Because each mindset statement activates a new possibility…
… and the Ho’oponopono phrases clean away the resistance to receiving it.
It’s intention → release → intention → release.
A steady rhythm of upgrade and cleanup.
It’s simple, potent, and energetically clean – exactly how we like our money mindset work around here!