The Connector! Empowerment! And An Invitation to Avoid Avoidance?
Or, how to stop daydreaming, take control and seriously move into your power
“Great things in business are never done by one person.” – Steve Jobs
Alright, gorgeous soul! Come in, take a breath, and exhale whatever chaos today tried to hand you.
You know the deal by now: we’re fine-tuning each Sacred Money Archetype with mindset statements you can grab in a crisis – like spiritual fire blankets.
If money feels heavy, foggy, overwhelming, or like it’s trying to sprint past you…
… this is how you stop, drop into your centre, and reset your energy.
And as always:
You steady the ship with your words:
Shouted out loud from the highest point in your district if you can…
Whispered in the office stationary cupboard if you can’t…
Written down during a presentation by Jeff from accounts when your nervous system needs grounding…
Or simply thought with intention in the dark at 2am when you’re wide awake… and the silence is all you have.
And remember: once-and-done doesn’t cut it.
If something lands, repeat it at least fifteen times.
Why fifteen?
Because as Catherine Ponder said, it’s the mystical number that breaks up old patterns and cracks open possibility.
And here at Mavericks & Malbec we love a mystical loophole, a short cut to fast-track us to big results!
So far we’ve taken a look at the Ruler and Accumulator. This week, it’s the turn of the Connector.
The Connector is your Inner Relationship Creator.
The soul-led collaborator.
The intuitive JV partner.
And also the “I trust the universe… but also I have no idea what my bank balance is” networking maven.
The thing is, Connectors run on vibes, not spreadsheets.
You feel your way through life – which is powerful – but when money stress hits, that intuitive elegance can flip into avoidance, fog, or daydreaming your way out of reality.
No shame here.
No judgment.
Just awareness.
This newsletter want to bring you back into grounded magnetism — where your heart leads, and your actions back you up.
Coming up are ten Connector Money Mindset Statements for prosperity.
And after each one, we add the Ho’oponopono cleaning prayer – Morrnah-style – so the statements don’t just land…
… they get to work to clean, soften and transform.
So take three deep, luxurious breaths in… and out… and let’s dive in.
I am now creating happy long-term relationships that generate income.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Money is a loving ally in my life and always available.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am facing my money situation and feeling wise, free and unafraid.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I give myself permission to be both intuitive and responsible with money.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
It is safe for me to know my numbers and make empowered choices.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I trust that the Universe will give me everything I ask for.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
The more comfortable I get with money, the more I empower myself.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am supported, guided, and surrounded by endless opportunities for prosperity.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I allow money to flow into my life consistently, harmoniously, and with ease.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am the empowered Connector: radiant, intuitive and financially aligned.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Here’s what you need to remember, beautiful Connector:
You don’t need to abandon your joy to be financially empowered.
You don’t need to sacrifice your intuition to be responsible.
And you don’t need to pretend that money doesn’t matter — because it does, and it wants to support you.
When your energy is aligned and your actions are simple and grounded, you become unstoppable.
The universe meets your openness with opportunity.
Your relationships amplify your prosperity.
Your joy becomes a strategy, not a liability.
Return to these statements anytime you feel the fog rolling in.
Repeat the ones that hit you hardest – fifteen times to unlock, loosen, and elevate.
Because this is your reminder:
You are not flaky.
You are not irresponsible.
You are not “bad with money.”
You are a Connector – a visionary with a wide-open heart who knows life is better when you don’t try to do it all yourself. And now you’re learning to anchor that heart into real-world wealth with support from others.
We’ll keep going, week by week, until all eight Sacred Money Archetypes and four Survival archetypes are activated, aligned, and supporting your prosperity path.
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Before delving into mindset, we uncovered the characteristics of the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist,Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer and Romantic Sacred Money Archetypes. (To find out which one you are, just complete this Assessment – here are the instructions – and definitely check out the Sacred Money Archetype cards.)
We also met the four “Survival” Archetypes – the Child, Victim, Prostitute and Saboteur.
We looked at how the position of your primary Sacred Money Archetype on your money chart influences your relationship with money and how the Survival archetypes affect her.
If you’re ready to jump down an archetypal rabbit hole, book a 1:1 Virtual VIP Day to meet your inner Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer or Romantic and start collaborating with her, not fighting against her.
Next week we’ll take a deep dive into the mindset of the Alchemist. Stay tuned!
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