Romantics! Hedonism! And… Responsibility?
Or, using your desire for pleasure as a compass to guide you to prosperity
“I finally figured out the only reason to be alive is to enjoy it.” – Rita Mae Brown
Aloha, lovely entrepreneurs!
We’re currently delving into Archetype mindset. This is so important for your finances. Because it’s within your mindset that your money will either flow to you abundantly or be withheld.
So far we’ve taken a look at the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity and Nurturer. This week, it’s the turn of the Romantic.
The Romantic is your Inner Hedonist.
You’re sensual, expressive, feeling-led, and deeply attuned to comfort, beauty, and emotional richness.
You want life to feel lovely — and you’re willing to create that loveliness yourself.
But when money gets tight or uncomfortable?
You soothe through spending.
You chase pleasure to escape pressure.
You lean into “treating yourself” when what you actually need is grounding, clarity, or support.
This session isn’t about denying your desires.
It’s about aligning them.
It’s about making abundance sustainable, nourishing, and emotionally stabilising — so pleasure doesn’t become a panic button.
Let’s shift you back into your empowered Romantic.
These mindset statements reconnect you to abundance while strengthening emotional regulation around money by using the key words of Ho’oponopono.1
So take three deep, luxurious breaths in… and out… and let’s dive in.
Here are ten Romantic Money Mindset Statements for prosperity:
I now create financial security while living life to the fullest.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
My desire for comfort and pleasure is valid and I honour it wisely.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am a prosperous person and I live life to the fullest.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
It is safe for me to handle money with clarity and confidence.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am a wonderful being and I deserve the best.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I release all negativity around building wealth.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I allow myself to receive support, structure, and financial calm.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I deserve the best and the best comes to me now.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I am relaxing into greater abundance now.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I embody the empowered Romantic: luxuriant, abundant, pleasure-seeking… and prosperous.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Romantic, hear this:
Your desire for pleasure is not a flaw — it’s a compass.
But it points you true north only when your emotions are steady and your money is handled with intention.
You don’t need to deny yourself comfort.
You don’t need to live austerely.
You don’t need to choose between luxury and responsibility.
You simply need to build a version of abundance that holds you emotionally, financially, and energetically.
These mindset statements are your reset tools.
Use them when you’re overwhelmed, tempted to self-soothe through spending, or drifting into fantasy instead of grounding in reality.
You are not irresponsible.
You are not indulgent.
You are not “too much.”
You are a Romantic learning to create a life that is soft, beautiful, aligned — and financially empowered.
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If this stirred something in you, join us deeper inside the Mavericks & Malbec world, the place where emotional abundance meets financial empowerment, where desire is honoured, and where money becomes a supportive partner, not a source of stress.
You deserve wealth that feels good, not just looks good.
If you’re ready to jump down an archetypal rabbit hole, book a 1:1 Virtual VIP Day to meet your inner Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer or Romantic and start collaborating with her, not fighting against her.
Next week we’ll start a deep dive into the mindset of the four Survival archetypes, starting with the Child. Don’t miss it!
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P.S.
Don’t forget! If you need a bit more background on the Romantic, before delving into mindset, we uncovered the characteristics of the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer and Romantic Sacred Money Archetypes. (To find out which one you are, just complete this Assessment – here are the instructions – and definitely check out the Sacred Money Archetype cards.)
We also met the four “Survival” Archetypes – the Child, Victim, Prostitute and Saboteur.
Finally, we looked at how the position of your primary Sacred Money Archetype on your money chart influences your relationship with money and how the Survival archetypes affect her.
If you want to find out more about any of this, just get in touch at: hello@mavericksandmalbec.com.
… and if you enjoyed it? Just…
We’re going to ease the stress by blending prosperity mindset work with the Ho’oponopono cleaning process – a method taught by Morrnah Simeona, the Hawaiian kahuna lapa’au (healer) who brought this practice to the modern world.
Why combine the two?
Because each mindset statement activates a new possibility…
… and the Ho’oponopono phrases clean away the resistance to receiving it.
It’s intention → release → intention → release.
A steady rhythm of upgrade and cleanup.
It’s simple, potent, and energetically clean – exactly how we like our money mindset work around here!