Nurturers, Abundance And… Boundaries?
Or, as a Nurturer, why boundaries are the best currency you can spend
“I think as a woman it’s in our nature to nurture someone else. Sometimes at the expense of ourselves.” – Emilia Clarke
Welcome back, lovely entrepreneurs!
We’re currently delving into Archetype mindset. This is so important for your finances. Because it’s within your mindset that your money will either flow to you abundantly or be withheld.
So far we’ve taken a look at the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick and Celebrity. This week, it’s the turn of the Nurturer.
The Nurturer is your Inner Sponsor.
You’re the giver.
The comforter.
The emotional rock.
You’re wired to support, offer, help, and heal – often before you even think about your own needs.
Your generosity is exquisite.
But it can also be expensive.
Because when money gets tight, or emotions get high, or someone you love needs something?
You default to giving.
Often too much.
Often at your own cost.
Often without being asked.
This session isn’t about changing your nature.
It’s about supporting it.
Protecting it.
And teaching it to include you.
Let’s recalibrate your relationship with generosity and allow your abundance to grow without depletion, combining Nurturer mindset with the key words of Ho’oponopono1. Because clearing guilt, over-responsibility, and emotional enmeshment is essential for the Nurturer.
So take three deep, luxurious breaths in… and out… and let’s dive in.
Here are ten Nurturer Money Mindset Statements for prosperity:
I honour my generous heart and include myself in its care.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
It is safe for me to receive support, love, and abundance.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I deserve to prosper in my life.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I enjoy my prosperity and I share it freely with others.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Healthy boundaries create stronger relationships — and more abundance.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I allow money to flow to me, not just away from me.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I will share my abundance with those who deserve it.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I give from fullness, not depletion.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
My generosity grows when I am financially supported and secure.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
I embody the empowered Nurturer – giving, devoted, reliable… and prosperous.
I love you, I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
Nurturer, listen closely:
Your giving nature is a gift, but only when it’s balanced with self-respect.
Sacrifice is not a virtue when it empties you.
Rescuing is not love when it erases your needs.
And giving from depletion is not generosity: it’s self-abandonment.
Remember:
Your power comes from boundaries.
Your abundance comes from letting support flow to you, not just through you.
Your prosperity grows when your wellbeing is centred — not sidelined.
These mindset statements are your new baseline.
Use them when guilt rises…
When someone tries to pull on your energy.
When you’re about to say “yes” but your nervous system whispers “no.”
When you feel the old pattern of over-giving activate.
You’re not selfish.
You’re not cold.
You’re not “too much” for wanting rest, money, or support.
You’re a Nurturer learning to nurture yourself first because that changes everything.
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If this resonated deeply, join us deeper inside the Mavericks & Malbec world where you’ll learn how to protect your energy, fortify your finances, and give from overflow instead of obligation.
You deserve a money relationship that supports your heart, not one that drains it.
Thank you for being here.
Stay generous.
Stay grounded.
Stay nourished.
If you’re ready to jump down an archetypal rabbit hole, book a 1:1 Virtual VIP Day to meet your inner Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer or Romantic and start collaborating with her, not fighting against her.
Next week we’ll take a deep dive into the mindset of the Romantic… don’t miss it!
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And don’t forget! If you need a bit more background on the Nurturer, before delving into mindset, we uncovered the characteristics of the Ruler, Accumulator, Connector, Alchemist, Maverick, Celebrity, Nurturer and Romantic Sacred Money Archetypes. (To find out which one you are, just complete this Assessment – here are the instructions – and definitely check out the Sacred Money Archetype cards.)
We also met the four “Survival” Archetypes – the Child, Victim, Prostitute and Saboteur.
Finally, we looked at how the position of your primary Sacred Money Archetype on your money chart influences your relationship with money and how the Survival archetypes affect her.
If you want to find out more about any of this, just get in touch at: hello@mavericksandmalbec.com.
… and if you liked it…
We’re going to ease the stress by blending prosperity mindset work with the Ho’oponopono cleaning process – a method taught by Morrnah Simeona, the Hawaiian kahuna lapa’au (healer) who brought this practice to the modern world.
Why combine the two?
Because each mindset statement activates a new possibility…
… and the Ho’oponopono phrases clean away the resistance to receiving it.
It’s intention → release → intention → release.
A steady rhythm of upgrade and cleanup.
It’s simple, potent, and energetically clean – exactly how we like our money mindset work around here!